Notes from the Top
BDSM Life Lessons

From the mailbag: I’m writing tonight to see if you would be interested in leading me into an exploration of my sensitivity to being tickled. I am extremely ticklish, especially in the areas that should be more erotic (ie; my balls and nipples)- to the point that it has interfered with normal sex. I have [...]

I got an email recently from someone who found me in Ask the Man Who Owns Him, asking about pain, piss, and more, seeking insight into himself and whatever his role is.  The answers to such questions are very complex, and will depend on just about everything.  My own experience will be different from anyone [...]