I got an email recently from someone who found me in Ask the Man Who Owns Him, asking about pain, piss, and more, seeking insight into himself and whatever his role is. The answers to such questions are very complex, and will depend on just about everything. My own experience will be different from anyone [...]
Archive for October 2011
What a Good Top Wants
25 Oct 11Experience Not Required
18 Oct 11Back in the days when I was a Master-in-training (this would be in the mid-late 90s), I often heard people say that one could not be a good top unless he had experience as a bottom. This was in the context of fisting, and I found this hard to believe. I had attempted receiving only [...]
“You’re the first white man…”
9 Oct 11“You’re the first white man to ever fuck me.” -D I’m accustomed to providing first-time experiences: first time getting tied up, first time taking something large and insertable… It’s only natural, I suppose, that I eventually participate in someone’s first interracial scene. Race, age, size… most physical characteristics have never meant much to me. What [...]
Rise and Fall of the Webmaster
3 Oct 11The Old Site, as I’ve come to call it, was in operation for about three years, from 2004 to 2007. If I had to say what I’m proudest of, as far as the site was concerned, it was that I did almost the whole thing by myself. Sure, I had to find third-party services for [...]