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Out with the old, in with the new

Five years is a long time. If you’d ever been to MasterJeff.com in the last five years, you probably saw the same thing: a porn site that didn’t have a way to join.

I can’t believe how much time passed without really being noticed. Sure, I can see the difference in the mirror, but most of the big changes were deliberate: I have a mohawk and a nose ring. The rest is just background noise — another day, something changes, but not so much that you really need to do anything about it.

But time has passed.

I’ve experienced things and learned things that, if I didn’t share them with anyone, they wouldn’t mean much. Having lost friends in the past over choices I have made, I have to draw lines between things I can talk about freely and things I can’t. Certainly, I’d have some difficulty maintaining professional relationships with my coworkers if they knew I ran (and starred in) a porn site. The people I meet professionally in the evenings don’t need to know what I really do for a living, nor about other clients. Most of my friends who know “everything” generally aren’t interested in my stories, or more likely, the sexual nature of the events involved.

My in-person audience is small. The internet is a big place. And this is my new home.

Welcome.

2 Responses to “Out with the old, in with the new”

  1. Welcome back.

    I remember the old site, and also joined once or twice. :o)

    Every so often I come back to see if you are doing anything new – so a very pleasant surprise today. I also enjoyed your contribution to david stein with David Schachter’s book which I bought when I was last in SF. Even though you weren’t online, nice to read that about you guys.

    While we never know or can call those who share aspects of their lives on the Internet friends, I always find pleasure in seeing how people grow and develop. I look forward to reading more of your posts again soon.

    Wolves

  2. Hi Wolves, thanks for stopping by!

    The book (“Ask the Man Who Owns Him”, available online) fills in a lot of our background and more of life away from the cameras. It was a pleasure to participate in and we’re always happy when we see a copy.

    I had been wanting to blog for a while, and the time is finally right — my domain/hosting was up for renewal, and I had to start while I can still remember most of the good stories to tell. We’re not getting any younger, you know.


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